Ftytr8 wrote:

I really liked your last post.  Why did you assume it was a woman though?  It could have been a guy.  In fact, it sounded alot like a guy I used to date.  He felt it was a woman’s duty to wait on him hand and foot.  He lost his job three times in the two years we dated and didn’t lift a finger to help because he felt that if a woman loved him enough, she’d do whatever he wanted.

Needless to say, we’re not together anymore and I am happy.

I don’t know why I assumed it was a woman.  I read between the lines I guess and was seeing more clues pointing to the female gender.  I am sorry to hear about your past relationship.  We’ve all got some nightmare mates we’ve chosen.  What are some of yours?