I think my boyfriend is obsessed with porn. He has tubs and tubs of magazines and DVDs that I just found while we were moving in together, and it’s kind of freaking me out. What do I do?
Confront him. Porn obsession isn’t healthy and can actually signify a deeper psychological issue than just a need to clean the pipes, so to speak. I am not saying porn is bad, but I am saying too much of it, like anything in life, is bad. He could be a sex addict or even have other issues that may need addressing. Just sit him down and let him know what you found and why YOU feel it’s a problem. Ask him to be open with you and see if it is a larger issue or if it’s just a bunch of crap he’s managed to collect over the years. If it’s the latter, just have a big bonfire or give the trash guys a big bonus.