Hands off

Candace wrote:


I am not a touchy feely girl AT ALL.  I don’t like PDAs, and I don’t even like holding hands.  So many guys I date want to cuddle, kiss, etc.,.  How do I get the guys I date to be okay with my no touching rule?


You don’t.  You can’t expect a guy to not want to cuddle/kiss/etc when the time is right.  If you don’t want to be touched, you’ll need to stop trying to change the people you date and start looking for someone that doesn’t like touching.  Question though: How does sex work with you then?  If you can’t stand to be touched, how does any intimacy happen?..or does it simply not happen at all?  I am not judging, I am simply curious.