I have been seeing a woman with a child and everything has been perfect except for one thing: this woman is obsessed with getting vaginal reconstruction surgery. I really don’t think she needs it-I mean, our sex life is great, but she keeps saying she wants to get the surgery. She is even saving for it.
How do I make her realize she is perfect as she is?
This one isn’t about you, I’m afraid. I could understand your concern if she wanted to do this for you, but it sounds like she is doing this for herself. You can say what you want, but it seems like she feels this procedure will benefit her mentally/emotionally/physically in some way, so it’s not up to you to change her mind, it’s up to you to deal with it.